Re: 2. Dress Modestly

Posted by alexanderkristall-meth on
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qwerty wrote

To respond to Drealm's point, I think that the most important things is not to base your choices of clothing on what will attract you a mate. If you find a good romantic partner, he or she will choose you because of your personal qualities and not just because you look attractive in a revealing piece of clothing.

In theory yes, but in reality you cannot judge personal qualities if you have no history with them. When someone is a stranger the only thing they can judge you on is what's on the surface. Based on this they'll receive you positively or they won't. This is especially true in the case of trying to meet someone online or cold approaching strangers. This is relevant to men on this forum since most here do not have an extended family/friend network in some country outside north America/western Europe where you can be introduced to people.

qwerty wrote

Besides, wearing clothing that covers the arms could actually help unathletic men, as it makes it more difficult for others to determine that one is not muscular.

Or it can be an admission that he's a weakling who's afraid to show anything.